Ok, it looks like we’re back to interviewing people again after a few absent weeks. Sorry about that folks!
Now the blogger I’m about to introduce you to was brought to my attention by Sharmaine Hobbs of When Women Awaken - you all remember her when she was interviewed here, right? Well, because she recommended this particular blogger, I decided to check her out and found myself intrigued with someone who runs a blog called “Blogging without a Blog.”
I asked myself, “Now, how is it possible to blog without having a blog?” I’ve never heard a such a thing so I spent some time on her site and realized this was someone I wanted to interview.
So, Barbara Swafford is here from “Blogging without a Blog” - let’s call her out from the green room!
Welcome to Adversity University Barbara!! ((hugging her)) Looks like everyone’s excited to be back here again with me interviewing interesting people like YOU. Shall we get to it?
Okay then!
Let’s fire away…..
1. One of my favorite questions when I want to learn about someone is by asking them to give me their 5-second introduction when I pose the question: “What do you do for a living?”
Sixteen years ago, my husband and I started an excavation business. He works out in the field, and I work in the office handing the administrative duties. I always say, “He’s the brawn, and I’m the brains”. Haha.
Stephen’s Response: I once knew a pilot who was in the excavation business up in Michigan. Apparently this airplane owner was doing pretty well in the business to afford a nice twin engine airplane. Do you have a plane yourselves?
2. Tell me in 3 to 5 sentences something we can’t read in your bio or at the “About Page” at your blog “Blogging Without a Blog.”
I’m a very independent person who learned to fend from myself at an early age. I was 15 when my father died and losing the “bread winner” forced/taught me and my siblings to be resourceful and enterprising. That summer I went to the big city (Chicago) to work as a nanny/babysitter for a family who had six children to earn money for school clothes. It was a little scary being that far away from home, but from then on, we all made it our mission to work when we could and take part of the burden off of our mother.
After spending one year in college, I knew I wanted to travel. Again I earned/saved money and my best friend and I set out on a road trip to the West Coast. We ran out of money when we reached California (We had $2.35 to our names). Both of us were too proud to call home (and claim failure) so we took jobs as maids in a Bay Area hotel. Until we had enough money saved for an apartment, we slept in the car and took cold showers in a beach cabana. Looking back, it was a great experience that set me on a path of knowing I could do anything I set my mind to.
Stephen’s Response: What an inspiring story - the tale of your siblings contributing with each of you having a job and therefore taking the pressure off your Mom. Wow! I’ll bet your Mom appreciated it.
I love how you and your friend found yourselves a job after arriving in California penniless from a cross country trek. Your experience kind of sounds like Adam Shepard’s story. Have you heard of him?
Adam wrote a book called “Scratch Beginnings” where he purposefully set out to be homeless for one year and worked his way back to living above the poverty level with the goal of obtaining a decent apartment, a car and about $2500 in savings (he actually saved twice that amount). It was recently released by publishing giant Harper Collins and I think you’ll love it as much as I did.
Like Adam’s experience, yours taught you how to set your mind to something and achieve it, regardless of the situation. That’s very, very powerful. It planted a fabulous seed of determination inside you. That was definitely a defining moment for you, wasn’t it?
3. How long have you been blogging at “Blogging Without a Blog”?
It was late March of 2007 when I went live with my first post. I’m now coming up on my 19 month anniversary of blogging.
Stephen’s Response: Congratulations on having made it this far. There’s evidence that many bloggers give up after a few months. Blogging is not easy - it requires commitment, energy and focus.
4. What is the real reason you started “Blogging Without a Blog” How did you come up with that fascinating name? I’ve never heard a such a thing - how can you blog without blogging?
Funny you should ask. Blogging Without A Blog wasn’t meant to be my primary blog. Observation Mountain was.
It all goes back to a time when I was searching for other passions in my life. I happened on the book, “The Secret” and after reading it, went online to research more about the law of attraction. My search brought me to Steve Pavlina’s blog. After reading many of his posts, I realized by having a blog I could share my thoughts, help others and possibly make money in the process. He made it look pretty easy, so I said, “Hey, why not?” I then started doing more research. Not knowing any of the technical stuff involved with blogging, I attacked it the same way I did my college studies. I took notes. One day as I was adding to what I had previously written, I wrote, “here I am, blogging without a blog”. Hence, the name was born.
In reality, blogging is no different than someone who journals or writes their thoughts on paper/computer. With a blog we are sharing our thoughts with the world.
Looking back, it was probably a silly name to pick for a blog, but it’s memorable.
Blogging Without A Blog was never meant to be more than me writing what I was learning. I didn’t expect to get very much traffic. After all, who would read my stuff when there were blogging professionals like Darren Rowse (Problogger) and Lorelle (Lorelle on WordPress) sharing their knowledge?
Ironically I did get a few comments, and you might say I got bit by the “comment bug”. I then visited their blogs and soon I got bit by the “community bug”, but I didn’t realize that’s what it was.
The rest, you might say, is history.
Stephen’s Response: It sounds like blogging evolved for you. I think I could say the same thing for myself. I’m very good friends with Lorelle and I know how much she loves helping other bloggers. Darren, who I’ve never met, did accept an article from me called How to Make your Videos More Accessible to an Untapped Market of Millions.
You most DEFINITELY have an interesting and memorable name for blogging, probably causing people to take a double look and think to themselves, “How can you blog without blogging?” That was the kind of reaction I had. It made me curious. Such is the power of “unusual names.’
I can certainly relate to the “comment and community” bugs. Since Day 1, I’ve strived to encourage community participation via comments. Some days we have more than other days. It’s an interesting to observe. I’m still learning how to draw people out of the woodwork. It’s not easy but it’s very rewarding.
You and I are a lot alike - when we are bitten by something, we attack it with gusto and go all out - like I did with my flying dreams and what I’m doing now with my new raw food lifestyle.
I think one of the reasons I was drawn to your blog was not only because of the name but I also sensed this energy about you in terms of being passionate about what you’re doing. Looks like my previous hunches about you have proven correct!
5. One of the reasons why you’re being interviewed, Barbara, is because I am fascinated with the amount of comments you get at “Blogging Without a Blog.” It’s not unusual to see between 30 to 60 comments from your community, which means you come across someone who is authentic. Somehow you elicit emotional responses from a wide spectrum of different people. I love that! What is your secret?
Stephen, I don’t know what my “secret” is. If I really think about it, maybe it’s because I like to listen to people. I learned years ago I could learn so much more from listening and observing than I could by talking. I also try to make everyone feel welcome on my blog just as I would if they were visiting my home.
Stephen’s Response: Listening is a critical skill. People LOVED to be listened to, especially if they took the time to leave a “value-added” comment. Everybody’s busy these days but if they take a moment or two to share their feelings, thoughts and comments, you can bet they want to be acknowledged. When you, as a blogger, respond to many of their comments, they feel as if they’re being listened to, even if you don’t agree with their veiwpoints or whatever. At least they’re being heard.
Which actually reminds me - would you believe that people constantly tell me that I “hear” better than those who can hear? I mean, I’ve been deaf since birth but I have lots of people telling me I have great listening skills because I give my total attention when in a conversation with others. My eyes don’t wander to see who else just came into the room, for example. I am not easily distracted - even if someone tries to interrupt the conversation. I’ll just put up a finger to signal that I’m still listening to the other person. How do you think the speaker feels when I do that?
6. If I were to ask you to dig a little further, how would you define who you really are?
I’m a Christian who genuinely cares about others. I respect the fact we are all human beings, each created equally. I’m a giver, and a person who keeps their promises. I’m a friend who believes in cultivating friendships. In addition to that, I’m a wife, (step)mother, grandmother and a sister.
Stephen’s Response: You certainly sound like you are living your life’s purpose in the way God intended for the human race!
7. What is the best advice you’ve ever received? Given?
The best advice I got was from my parents. They taught us no matter what we do, ALWAYS, give it our best.
The best advice I’ve given was to my step children. I told them all of their actions will have consequences, good or bad. I’m now happy to see they are now teaching that to their children.
Stephen’s Response: Makes sense - “always give it your best.” I can attest to that. I’ve had business situations that some people thought didn’t go very well but I felt otherwise because I knew I had done my very best. That’s what counts, right?
8. What do you consider your proudest achievement in life?
That goes back to when I was 23. I had worked my way up from maid at that hotel (see #2 answer) and was now working in reservations. The position for Executive Housekeeper came available and my boss mentioned to me that I should apply. I had no managerial experience, but with his encouragement, I said “What have I got to lose?” My interview was with the General Manager. No sooner had I sat down, he said, “Barbara, I’ll be honest with you. I have a stack of applications of people with as much as 40 years of experience. I’m wondering, why would you even ask for an interview when you’re lacking the experience?” I was a little stunned, and knew he thought I was wasting his time, but I looked at him and said, “You’re right, the only experience I have is as a maid. However, I’m looking at you. You’re young (he was about 35). You stared at the bottom, too, but someone gave you a break.” I paused and then said, “Hopefully you’ll be the one giving me a break.”
Three days later, I was sitting at my desk, chewing gum and doing my job. The General Manager walked in and said, “Barbara, didn’t anyone tell you the Executive Housekeeper shouldn’t be chewing gum”.
I got the job and went on to manage a staff of 55. It was a great learning experience, and with the support of my old boss and the General Manager, that started my career.
Stephen’s Response: Wow, how courageous of you to dare take the risk and speak your mind. I did that when I was interviewed at Merrill Lynch years ago. The manager didn’t know what to do with me but I spoke up and said, “If you don’t hire me, you’ll never know what I can do for this firm.” I was hired and 4 years later I was pulling down six figures.
Despite my success on Wall Street, i’ve NEVER managed a staff of 55. That’s very impressive. In fact, I don’t care for managing people all that much. While I was in Corporate America, I preferred to work independently and do what was expected of me. I did have some supervisory positions but wasn’t crazy about being responsible for the actions of those who reported to me. I admire how you ended up in a position for which you had absolutely NO experience. WOW.
(Turning to the audience) - Do you see what I mean? Just because you have no experience, no credentials, no MBA (or whatever it is you think you need) doesn’t mean you can’t have the job or career that you want! Barbara is proof of that. Just re-read her story again and let it sink in your subconscious mind.
9. We all have a dark side, what’s yours?
On the dark side, I don’t have a lot of tolerance for those who are not willing to help themselves, but instead expect the government to pick up the tab. I’m also intolerant to those who abuse others, whether it be spouses, children, the elderly or animals.
Stephen’s Response: Very interesting response - you must have either experienced this firsthand, having seen it somewhere close by to have this kind of view.
10. Ah, I think I’ve discovered the secret to the amount of responses you get at your blog. You’re doing something similiar to what I’ve been doing. Can you guess what it is?
Give up?
You enjoy pimping the heck out of other bloggers, particularly those who are new! For example, you have a “New Blog of the Week” up on the main page to help promote other bloggers. That means you love to shine the spotlight on others, just as I do here through the interview series.
Tell me, Barbara, what inspired you to do this? Tell me what led you to be so generous?
(Ladies and gentlemen, can you see why I am thrilled to have someone like Barbara here with us? She loves to shine the spotlight on others, how can anyone not respond to that???)
(Sorry Barbara, I got carried away, but as you can see, I get excited when I’m in the presence of a giving person like YOU.)
Okay, I’ll shut up now, your turn!
Well Stephen, I’ve never thought of it as “pimping” other bloggers, but when you put it that way, you’re right.
During the course of blogging, I would find other new bloggers who voiced concern of how they weren’t getting found. I researched to see how we could get noticed, and although many wrote to use SEO (search engine optimization), comment on other blogs, join blog carnivals, use registries, etc, no one went beyond that. I was starting to get a little bit of traffic and loyal visitors, so I decided to “pay it forward”. My thought was, if I could showcase a blogger for a week long period, maybe it would help them get some of the traffic from my blog.
I don’t think of it as being “generous”, as much as just being helpful and considerate. With the blogging community being a group of kind and caring people (minus the bad eggs), we need a way to find each other. It’s just a small contribution on my part.
Stephen’s Response: Haha, isn’t that a funny way of putting it? “Pimping Other Bloggers.” I’ll bet when you first heard of it, images of a pimp flashed across your mind, didn’t it? haha. Well, aren’t both of us pimping others to the hilt with you exposing new bloggers and me interviewing “interesting people who happen to have a blog”?
It’s all about helping others experience the spotlight. I love it when people do that for me, so why shouldn’t I (or we) do it for others? It’s like giving Christmas presents and watching the receipient exclaim in delight. To me that’s really exciting. I love getting emails from people who have been interviewed here and having them tell me how much it meant to them. I always feel this sense of inner satisfaction when that happens.
11. What would you say was the defining moment (personal “tipping point” per sey) that forever changed the course of your life? For example, was it someone who made an impact on you or was it a spiritual revelation?
Remember the road trip my best friend and I took? (See question #2) It was on that trip I was reading a book written by Ruth Montgomery (Don’t ask me the title as it was too many years ago.). It was in that book I learned to believe in the power of our spiritual angels. It was then I “felt” the presence of my deceased father watching over us, guiding us. From that moment on, I’ve felt “safe”. Looking back I know I have been in situations that could have turned out tragic, but because of split second delays, or the interaction of another person, I’ve been diverted from encountering negative situations. For me, I see that as the hand of a Higher Power in my life.
Stephen’s Response: Yes, I remember the road trip you told us about. In fact, my response to that story was “I’ll bet this was a defining point in your life, wasn’t it?”
As for the book that was written by Ruth Montgomery, I suppose we could google it and find something on the Internet.
I also very much believe in spiritual angels. Absolutely. In fact, I’ve written extensively about them in previous blog articles like Is There Such a Thing as Divine Intervention?-You Tell Me!
BARBARA, we are out of time now. Thanks for sharing such heartwarming, uplifting stories about your life! We look forward to seeing you again next week.
(Turning to audience): Let’s give her a hearty applause. Please leave comments before you leave and tell her how much her you enjoyed her inspirational stories and don’t forget to check out Blogging without a Blog - she’ll be waiting for you there!
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2:13 am on October 22nd, 2008 1
Hi Stephen - Thank you so much for this opportunity. I am humbled and honored to be included with the other great interviews you’ve conducted.
In response to your questions. No, we don’t have an plane, but ironically I was raised in Michigan.
I did hear of Adam Shepard’s story, however, I haven’t read the book. I’ll have to add it to my “must reads”.
Yes, Lorelle is a sweetheart. She’s one of my blogging mentors.
Blogging is a newly found passion, and like you, I attack it with gusto. Who knew I would enjoy it so much?
I love your story of how your “listening” skills are viewed as being better than those who can hear. That says a lot about you Stephen. Those who are speaking to you KNOW they have your undivided attention.
Yes, giving every situation our best is important. Plus we have to remember, “our best” is always improving, so what was our best last year, is even better now.
I love your response to the manager at Merrill Lynch. I’m sure he wasn’t sorry he hired you. One thing I loved about that job as Executive Housekeeper is that the employees were from all over the world. They taught me their customs and language and I taught them what I knew. I have lots of great memories from those days.
From my dark side, fortunately I’ve never experienced abuse, but I know many who have been the subject of it. It breaks my heart when I hear their stories.
I love your analogy of pimping others as giving Christmas presents and watching others unwrap them. How true is that?
Thanks again Stephen. This has been fun.
2:21 am on October 22nd, 2008 2
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4:02 am on October 22nd, 2008 3
Hi Stephen. Thanks for this wonderful interview. I’ve been following Barbara’s blog for a few months now. She has created a community I enjoy very much, and because she blogs for her readers, it’s nice to learn a bit more about her. And now, back over to you Barbara at Blogging Without A Blog….
6:04 am on October 22nd, 2008 4
Hi there Steven - I really enjoyed reading this interview with Barbara, who I have got to know over at BWAB - thanks! The community there is great - people meet in the comments section and often help each other out. Due I think to the culture Barbara cultivates there.
7:06 am on October 22nd, 2008 5
nice interview with barbara, stephen. i seem to always learn something new with each interview she has done, which makes for a nice read. i like knowing things about the person behind the blog.
keep up the great work B!
8:57 am on October 22nd, 2008 6
Hi Steven, Thank you so much for shining the light on Barbara. She is a selfless giver. One of the most impressive ways she builds community is to answer every commenter. It really does feel like you’re in her living room. She has inspired me, not only by the tone she sets, but also by visiting my blog and leaving supportive comments. It means the world to someone just starting out, and when you see her name in the comments, it lights up your day.
9:12 am on October 22nd, 2008 7
Hi Steven,
That was a great interview, and of course a great subject, Barbara is one of the most generous women I have ever met, I will never forget how much she has to done to help and encourage me as one of her new bloggers. Thanks for shining the spotlight on HER for a change!
By the way, I am one of your silent subscribers, I really enjoy your blog, but don’t often comment, this brought me out!I’ve been here since you interviewed the Pen Men!
9:17 am on October 22nd, 2008 8
@ Betsy Wuebker:
I know exactly how you mean when you’re just starting out and people leave comments for you. It’s an incredible motivator and a way to connect with people from faraway lands.
For example, yesterday a blogger named Sid Savara who left an incredibly powerful, uplifting message that I happened to see before going to bed last night. You can see it here: http://snurl.com/4li7l
When people leave messages like that (and I get scores of them), I am continually reminded that I do make a difference by touching the lives a many people. It keeps me motivated. Many bloggers give up after a couple of months. I’ve been doing this since April 2006. Hard to believe!
Like Barbara, I make every effort to answer many commenters too because I know how it feels when a blogger responds to mine.
Thanks! So glad you came by.
9:19 am on October 22nd, 2008 9
@ natural:
Thanks Valerie (a.k.a. Natural). That’s the whole purpose of this interview series to bring out the best in someone and shine the light on them. I LOVE doing that - it makes me feel good to return the favor to someone who’s made it a practice to shine the light on others.
I’m glad you liked the interview format!
9:21 am on October 22nd, 2008 10
@ Robin:
Yes I agree that Barbara has somehow managed to create a culture over at BWAB that encourages people to leave comments. It is something a lot of bloggers strive for.
So glad you enjoyed reading more about her. Next week promises to be even more interesting because I ask “tougher questions.”
9:22 am on October 22nd, 2008 11
@ Davina:
I had to smile at the way you ended your comment as if you were also on the show with us “And now, back over to you Barbara at Blogging Without a Blog.” Loved it!
Loved hearing from you Davina - thanks.
9:27 am on October 22nd, 2008 12
@ Wendi Kelly-Life’s Little Inspirations:
The more I read everyone’s comments about my interview with Barbara, the more thankful I am to Sharmaine Hobbs for introducing me to her. I cannot possibly be more thrilled to have given Barbara the exposure she deserves at this blog.
I’m even more excited and humbled to learn that you are one of my silent subscribers. I get those “outings” a few times a year and nothing blesses me more than finally meeting them. Cool - I’m glad this interview OUTED you. WOOT!
Does that mean you’ll comment more often in the future? LOL. Wink, wink.
9:36 am on October 22nd, 2008 13
@ Barbara Swafford:
Wow, what a fantastic message from you, especially since this interview is all about you! I LOVE IT. I’m brimming with excitement and energy this morning. It’s so cool to see the avalanche of responses coming out of the woods so quickly. I even heard from one of my “silent subscribers” who also follows you. Way cool.
You lived in Michigan too? How ironic! Lived there for 7 years before moving to OH to undergo specialized flight training.
I think you’ll really enjoy Adam Shepard’s book because it’s inspirational similiar to yours.
As for the “listening” skills - well, let me put it to you this way. I like to treat others the way I like being treated myself. When I’m talking, I love it when I have people’s undivided attention. But before I get that, I have to give it first. Give then get. You know?
Your experience at the hotel/motel not only gave you a glimpse into the customs and languages of different maids under your employ but it also taught you the value of compassion, diversity and acceptance. I totally get that.
Can’t wait for Part II, especially since you said some of the forthcoming questions are “tough.” Wink, wink. Have a fabulous day.
9:42 am on October 22nd, 2008 14
All right, come clean! What part of Michigan? I am from West Michigan originally, between Grand Rapids and Kalamazoo, where I was born! I think Barbara is a Yooper.
9:52 am on October 22nd, 2008 15
@ Betsy Wuebker:
Haha, you’re funny!
I lived in Harrison Township, on the far east side of the thumb portion of Michigan. Right near Lake St. Clair. Familiar with it?
Haha, Barbara is definitely a “Yooper.” (Never heard of that but it sounded good so I thought I’d chime in). Hehehe.
10:24 am on October 22nd, 2008 16
oh yes, I do know it! I lived at 16 Mile and Jefferson for several years (Mt. Clemens).
10:57 am on October 22nd, 2008 17
Great interview. You illuminated Barbara’s passion, compassion, self-reliance, and life changing moments with just a handful of questions.
11:15 am on October 22nd, 2008 18
@ J.D. Meier:
Thanks JD - I put a lot of thought into the kind of questions I want to ask.
11:16 am on October 22nd, 2008 19
Hi Stephen
This is great work. I say that because your questions dig deep and give us greater perspective on a gal we know and admire through her blog. I also enjoy your format of responding to the answers and tying it all together.
This interview helped me too understand Barbara’s motivations better and I appreciate that.
2:03 pm on October 22nd, 2008 20
Hi Davina - Thanks for stopping by and reading the interview. I certainly appreciate your kind words.
Hi Robin - It’s good to see you here, and thank you for being part of the BWAB community.
Hi Natural - Yup! Stephen made me dig into the past and reveal why I am the way I am. I don’t know if that’s good or bad? Haha.
Hi Betsy - Thank you for your kind words. It pleases me to know I’m an inspiration and that my comments are appreciated. Now if I can find more time, I can do more of that.
Hi Wendi - You are so sweet, as are your words. Thank you!
Hi Stephen - I agree, we should treat others the way we want to be treated. It’s not all about “us”, is it?
Yes, I am a “Yooper”, meaning I lived in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan (U.P.).
Hi J.D. - Thank you for your kind words. Stephen does ask great questions, doesn’t he?
Hi Tom - Wait until part two. Stephen is making me dig deep and one of his questions brings a lot of buried (sad) memories to the surface. He’s good, isn’t he?
2:36 pm on October 22nd, 2008 21
Thank you for this interview. Barbara is fascinating and it’s great to know more about her. Barbara, wow, losing your father at such a young age and having to earn money for clothes - that’s such an inspiring story, and especially since you see the positive in it.
4:22 pm on October 22nd, 2008 22
Hi Stephen - great interview questions. Barbara - you’ve mentioned your road trip before but I never knew you’d lost your father when you were so young. That must have been really difficult.
4:34 pm on October 22nd, 2008 23
Yes you do listen to people that’s your secret and you are also industrious.
5:06 pm on October 22nd, 2008 24
A wonderful interview and I enjoyed how full it was of more insights about Barbara. I have only been blogging since May 1,2008 and have learned so much about this endeavor from Barbara and her commenters. I too am pushing myself to figure this medium out and to hopefully make some money in my life, but I am moving at a snail’s pace and Barbara and her words and ideas just pick me up and get me moving forward - progressing.
She is very clever and bright and truly a gift to the beginners. One of those people you are glad you are getting to know.
I liked your writing between the lines and responses and learned more about you too! Always a great thing for me to learn something new!
I have a daughter at UM - Ann Arbor studying to be a Librarian - I finished High School in Rocky River, Ohio…
5:33 pm on October 22nd, 2008 25
Barbara is a rarity in the “improve your blog” niche: she is genuine, generous and supportive. There is no hype at BWAB! Consequently her readers and commenters leave thoughtful comments and a real conversation ensues.
Thanks for the interview - always fascinating to learn more about bloggy friends!
6:22 pm on October 22nd, 2008 26
Hi Stephen: I’ve been visiting and commenting on Barbara’s blog regularly for about 4 months now, but this is the first interview of her that I’ve read. Now I know tons of stuff about her I didn’t know before. I like how she worked her way up from hotel maid to manager
10:56 pm on October 22nd, 2008 27
Great interview…. I learn more about Barbara each and every day. With her background out in front, gives more insight to her ways of entertaining us daily. Thank you for letting us in on the interview!
11:32 pm on October 22nd, 2008 28
What a great interview! I like the fact that there are several probing questions that got me to know Barbara better. I’ve been reading her blog for some time and enjoy the community she has built. A grandmother? I never knew!! From the interview, I also found out how enterprising and courageous she is. Very inspiring!
11:48 pm on October 22nd, 2008 29
Hi Stephen,
I love it when I run across these interviews of other bloggers. They prove to be very valuable. Keep it up!
Cheers,
Jeremy
8:33 am on October 23rd, 2008 30
@Barbara - I love the title Blogging Without a Blog, and thank you for sharing a glimpse of our beloved Barbara that is a bit more personal in nature.
@Stephen - great questions! Not the usual “so how did you get into blogging?” ones. I also like how you set up the interview more like a dialogue. It makes it more interactive.
9:08 am on October 23rd, 2008 31
I love interviews! They give me a perspective on a person that I’ve been following that I never knew. I think Barbara was very brave for going to Chicago at fifteen to become a nanny. It shows how strong she was/is and how it comes out in her blog.
9:46 am on October 23rd, 2008 32
@ Karl Staib - Work Happy Now:
Me too! That’s why I created the “Stephen Hopson Interview” series at the end of last year. It’s a way to give back to people who I perceive as being authentic, one of the prerequisites for this program.
I totally agree with your statement about how strong (or courageous) she was to help her mom pay the bills by going far away to become a nanny. I am drawn to other courageous people because they can teach you a lot about life.
11:12 am on October 23rd, 2008 33
@ Urban Panther:
I’m thrilled to see the outpouring of responses to my interview with Barbara - never in the history of the “Stephen Hopson Interviews” have I seen such a thing!
I’ll bet you’re looking forward to the second part! Me too.
11:13 am on October 23rd, 2008 34
@ Jeremy Day:
I certainly plan to keep up this interview series - Part II with Barbara is coming next week!
My goal is to interview authentic bloggers who are truly making an impact. I consider them “rising stars” in the blogging world. Barbara certainly fits that doesn’t she?
11:16 am on October 23rd, 2008 35
@ Evelyn Lim:
My intend was to reach in and bring out the inner essence of those who I interview which is why you and countless others have gotten to know Barbara in ways you haven’t before. It’s very exciting.
I’m grateful you came along to be a part of it - yes, I know, a grandmother? Isn’t that something? What about how she became Executive Housekeeper with ZERO experience? I liked that the most. That blew me away and gave me even more hope if that were possible.
11:18 am on October 23rd, 2008 36
@ Linda:
Actually, I should thank YOU for coming along and joining us at this opportunity to get to know Barbara. I am simply astonished at the outpouring of love we’re getting here. I just cannot get over it.
11:22 am on October 23rd, 2008 37
@ Marelisa:
Me too - I thought that part about her moving her way up from hotel maid to manager was very inspirational. Just reading that alone gave me, and I’m sure others, hope.
11:26 am on October 23rd, 2008 38
@ Vintage Mommy:
I definitely agree with Barbara being considered a “rarity” in the improve your blog niche. The moment I learned about her was the moment I knew I had to feature her here. It turned out to be the right choice because so many of you have come out of the woods to comment and share their thoughts with us.
I’m so humbled - I never expected this kind of outpouring toward one person but then again, I shouldn’t have been surprised. I enjoy having these kinds of conversations - thanks for stopping by.
11:30 am on October 23rd, 2008 39
@ Patricia:
First of all, welcome to the world of blogging! While you’ve only been blogging since May 2008 (my birthday month), you are already reaping the full benefits of connecting with so many people from around the world. It’s a wonderful journey, isn’t it?
Interesting how some parts of your life has touched upon areas of where I used to be or am in like Michigan and Ohio. I lived in Michigan for 7 years and so I’m familiar with UM and Rocky River in OH. How “coincidential”
11:32 am on October 23rd, 2008 40
@ Chris:
I assume you’re talking to both Barbara and I? Well, I’ll accept the compliment too. LOL.
11:33 am on October 23rd, 2008 41
@ Cath Lawson:
Thanks Cath - I take pride in the kind of questions I ask - when they were created, I thought deeply about how I could make this interview series stand out for maximum impact.
Looks like it’s working and I’m very grateful for that. Hope you enjoy Part II with Barbara next week!
11:35 am on October 23rd, 2008 42
@ Vered - MomGrind:
I cannot fathom what it must be like to have lost a major breadwinner like a father at such a young age and then going out to work to support the family. I mean, I had odd jobs that I had to fight for (because no one could believe a deaf kid could get a job but I went out and proved them wrong) but nothing like Barbara’s experience.
Her story definitely has a WOW factor in it.
12:22 pm on October 23rd, 2008 43
That was absolutely wonderful as I expected! I loved learning more about Barbara. It doesn’t get any more real than Barbara. There has been something about her since I first came across her blog that pulls me to her. She is someone that I really want to meet. The more I learn about her the more I want to meet her. Thank you Stephen for this interview.
12:37 pm on October 23rd, 2008 44
@ Jennifer:
Now both you and Barbara have something even more in common - the two of you have been featured at the “Stephen Hopson Interview” series.
WOOT!
And both of you had a great turnout from the community too.
1:50 pm on October 23rd, 2008 45
What a great interview!! The story of Barbara’s life is inspiring - all the little bits you have gotten her to reveal.
Thank you.
Barbara - it is inspiring - your life, your start and how you moved up in your job. Thank you for sharing!
2:16 pm on October 23rd, 2008 46
Stephen, thank you for showcasing such a wonderful person. I want to start by saying that Barbara has been pivotal in my life - through her New Blog of The Week series - upon which she bestowed that honor to me many weeks back. It was, without a doubt, the turning point in my blogging experience. My traffic increased by leaps and bounds, comments became more numerous and really heart-felt, and I really felt like I had a real friend out there in the blogging world. It was a GREAT day for me, and one that has led me to follow in some of the same principles Barbara practices - first off - really listening to her readers.
Barbara, congratulations on this interview - wow, what a great way to get to know you even better. And in so doing, I am even more drawn to you. You are a real giver to others in the world, and I see this now even more! I think you know it, but I love your blog Barbara! Hearing your story of both helping out your family at a young age, and of your travels to California - I have so much respect for you and how you’ve handled your life. Barbara, you’re awesome!!
3:59 pm on October 23rd, 2008 47
@ Lance:
What a heartfelt comment like so many others on here! I had NO idea the kind of response this interview would generate - I’m flabbergasted. WOW.
I can imagine you grateful you were to see your traffic leaping by leaps and bounds because of what Barbara did for you. This is a great example of how important it is to reach out and pull in people, put them in the spotlight because not only will it make your day but it’ll make the day of the person who is doing it better too.
3:59 pm on October 23rd, 2008 48
@ Maya:
Thanks Maya - wait until Part II - it goes even deeper. It has Barbara trembling somewhat but she’s going to go through with it because she wants to.
4:10 pm on October 23rd, 2008 49
WOW! I don’t know what to say. I’m reading these comments and tears come to my eyes.
Hi Vered - Yes, losing my father at 15 was tough. The distraction of leaving for the summer was probably the best thing for me at the time.
Hi Catherine - Yes, I did write about that road trip before, but it’s buried in my archives.
Hi Chris - Listening has taught me a lot. I often learn from others mistakes.
Hi Patricia - Thank you for your kind words. I’m so happy my blog helps others. I know I can’t compete with the big boys/girls, but I do know how to offer encouragement to new bloggers.
Hi Vintage Mommy - You’re so sweet. You’re right. I don’t write “hype”.
Hi Marelisa - Next week you can read more. Stephen gave me 22 questions to answer. The next one is a tough one as I have to dig deep.
Hi Linda - Yup, you’re all getting to know “the rest of the story”.
Hi Evelyn - Yes, I’m a grandmother to 13. I have four (step)children, whom I love dearly.
Hi Jeremy - Thanks for stopping by.
Hi Panther - Glad to hear you like the name of my blog. Looking back, I probably could have done better, but it’s too late now. Hehe!
Hi Karl - Oh yes, those early days gave me a solid foundation to build on. I’m so happy now I had that.
Hi Jennifer - Maybe someday we’ll meet at a blogging convention. How cool would that be? All the BWABers in one spot.
Hi Maya - You’re welcome. Stay tuned, part 2 reveals even more.
Hi Lance - You’re so kind. Even though I showcased your blog, it’s you and your content that keeps your readers coming back for more. Like you, I feel we’re friends, and I feel that way about all of my loyal “fans”. I wouldn’t be where I am without all of you.
Stephen - Again, I thank you. I’ll be emailing part 2 to you sometime on or before Monday.
4:39 pm on October 23rd, 2008 50
Hi Barbara - I couldn’t remember if you wrote about it, or emailed me. But I remember thinking at the time that is sounded just like what Thelma and Louise did. You didn’t bump into Brad Pitt on the way did you?
7:11 pm on October 23rd, 2008 51
Hi Catherine - LOL - I guess that trip does kinda sound like Thelma and Louise. No, we didn’t run into Brad Pitt (he may not have even been born at that time), but at the hotel we did have some big names staying there. The ones I remember are Sammy Davis Jr., The Jackson Five (before Michael made it big), and a few other actors whose names I don’t recall. Boy am I dating myself.
2:54 am on October 24th, 2008 52
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10:08 pm on October 24th, 2008 53
Stephen,
I’m so happy that you were able to bring such an awesome woman as Barbara to the AU community. She made such a deep impression on me when I first read her story,that I had to tell you about it. Now we all get the “behind the curtain preview”. What an incredible journey and an incredible life. It’s clear that we all love her and have been touched by her openness and generosity.
Barbara,
I’m sorry I am late weighing in. You already know how much I was inspired by you. I want to send some love your way too. Your light is radiating so brightly and all of the many comments and accolades attest to who you are. They are the fruit of your labor. You are “living” life…making the most of it, giving your all, helping others along the way, and giving yourself away.
Truly you are phenomenal and I look forward to hearing part II and going to blogging school at your blog:))
I’m so grateful that I mentioned you to Stephen and that he was able to have you on the Interview Series we love so much so that everyone hear could experience your spirit and hear your story.
For all you’ve done, for every door you helped to open for others, and for all the wealth of wisdom and love you’re sending our way…hat’s off to you and thanks for giving us the best example of a well lived life.
I think something BIG is in store for you!
Blessings,
Sharmaine
8:55 am on October 26th, 2008 54
@ Sharmaine:
I am also very grateful to have brought her into this community. The explosion of comments that followed the first part is definitely testimony to her openness and generosity.
What’s funny is that almost a week later, people are STILL reading that interview! AMAZING
2:02 am on October 27th, 2008 55
Hi Sharmaine - Not only did you send me a beautiful email, but you’ve also written a beautiful comment. Your words touch my heart in more ways than I can express. Again, I say thank you.
Hi Stephen - It’s great being a part of your community. It’s filled with wonderful people, which is no surprise, as it’s obviously a reflection of you.
12:11 pm on October 28th, 2008 56
@ Barbara Swafford:
Thanks Barbara - it’s true, we are a reflection of who we attract in our lives whether it’d be through a blog or people physically present.
1:40 pm on November 6th, 2008 57
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