(Continued from a previous story)
A large woman with salt and pepper hair, and twinkling brown eyes, Mrs. Jordan, my fifth grade teacher, had a voice that boomeranged off the walls of her tiny classroom. The school was Blue Creek Elementary in Latham, New York (just outside Albany).
On one sunny afternoon, she asked the class a question. I read her lips from my front-row seat and immediately raised my hand.
I couldn’t believe it – despite my fears, I felt uncharacteristically confident because — for once — I was sure I had the right answer.
But, when she called on me, I was suddenly afraid. Here was an opportunity to impress the powerful teacher and show her I was worthy of her love. Maybe even impress my classmates a little.
I didn’t want to blow it. I took a deep breath and nervously answered her question.
Her explosive response startled all of us.
She enthusiastically slammed her right foot on the floor and whirled her finger a full circle until it pointed directly at me. With sparkling eyes and a wide smile she cried, “THAT’S RIGHT STEPHEN!”
For the first time in my young life, I felt like an instant star. My heart burst with pride as an ear-to-ear grin filled my face. I sat a little taller in my chair and puffed out my chest. My confidence soared.
It was amazing how a simple three-word phrase delivered with incredible enthusiasm had totally transformed my young life.
“THAT’S RIGHT STEPHEN!”
All it took was three words to get me to think that I would make a place for myself in this world no matter how many obstacles I had to overcome. From that day forward, my grades and speech improved dramatically. My peers suddenly looked at me with new respect and my outlook on life did a complete turnabout.
The next story “The Bully…..” demonstrates the power of Mrs. Jordan’s three words.
FYI, I now have a keynote speech called “That’s Right Stephen!” for speaking engagements. You can see the speech description here. There’s also a YouTube video showing me giving Mrs. Jordan a surprise of a lifetime on a national talk show to thank her for saying those three words. Click here to see it.
Let me ask you this: Have you taken a moment to REMEMBER who helped you in your life?
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8:11 am on October 11th, 2007 1
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5:11 am on November 13th, 2007 6
Stephen,
Thanks for sharing this post. You just made me
remember the people that specifically told me back
then “I BELIEVE IN YOU!”
I have to get in touch with them NOW!
Thanks buddy
7:05 am on November 13th, 2007 7
Adebola:
And when you get in touch with them, they will forever remember it. You will have touched their lives in return for touching yours.
Thanks for letting me know you enjoyed this story. I’m glad it inspired you to reach out to the people who believed in you so long ago.
4:59 pm on January 22nd, 2008 8
Thanks Stephen. Good stuff. There’s a song entitled, “I Believe in You” off of a Touched by an Angel Soundtrack that would go perfectly with this presentation if you ever give it again. It’s probably 7 or 8 years old but would work well. I blog a little about adversity at http://www.discoverj.blogspot.com. check out “Father of Illegitimate Adversity” if you go. Thanks!
8:30 am on January 23rd, 2008 9
Jonathan:
Welcome, welcome and welcome to the Adversity University community! I’m glad you decided to stop by and leave a comment. Thanks!
The song you referenced does seem to fit in with the theme of this article, doesn’t it? I wonder if I decided to use it, if I would have to get special permission for it?
Thanks for letting me know about your blog, I’ll certainly check it out. “Father of Illegitimate Adversity” sounds intriguing!
Thanks again for taking the time to leave a value-added message. I love interacting with my readers and visitors.
11:02 pm on May 11th, 2008 10
Teaching is such an honorable profession. I taught fifth grade for several years, and loved it. IMHO, the age of the students is perfect. They are just old enough to be involved in “serious” discussions, but they’re too young to be disillusioned with school.
I loved every minute of it……………:)
Today, I still do private tutoring, and I know when they leave my class, they’re excited about the next lesson.
11:10 pm on May 11th, 2008 11
In fact, right now, I’m watching “Mr Holland’s Opus,” a great movie about the power of teachers.
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5:42 am on May 12th, 2008 12
LisaN:
What an absolute honor to meet a former fifth grade teacher! Thank you so much for stopping by and reading this story. I’m thrilled to hear that you made a difference with your students and how, because of you, they were excited about the next lesson.
I have such fond memories of the teacher - what a powerful woman! She planted that seed of greatness in my mind when I needed it most. I love how she slammed her foot on the floor and pointed her finger at me when I gave her the answer. It feels as if it happened yesterday.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. BTW, I also saw “Mr. Holland Opus” and loved it. Also, if you know of national teacher organizations that need inspirational speakers, please send them a link to my demo tape: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UMPcAfxNzvU
Thanks!
6:59 am on June 18th, 2008 13
…I am so blessed with the people who express their confidence in me!… I try to stay in touch and update them on my progress…. yesterday, I visited an old teacher of mine, what a happy reunion it was, even though we have not seen each other for just 1,5 years, since I last left the country. …I can only imagine how thrilled is your teacher with your success, Stephen!…
9:22 am on June 18th, 2008 14
Victoria:
It’s amazing, isn’t it? If we just open our eyes a little, we’d recognize how people come into our lives for a very special reason - often to help us get to the next level or teach us a lesson.
Congratulations on the reunion with your teacher! That must have been incredible event. What grade did you have this person for a teacher and what did he/she do that was so impactful?
1:10 pm on June 24th, 2008 15
As a fifth grade teacher it is wonderful story to hear about. I hope that I have a positive impact on my students as your Mrs. Jordan has had on you!
4:11 pm on June 25th, 2008 16
Rachel:
How great it is to have an actual fifth grade teacher come by and comment on this story!
I’m so glad it inspired you and I hope you share it with as many teachers as you can possibly think of. My goal is to let them know how important of a difference maker they are.
12:31 pm on January 17th, 2009 17
This post has a truly upbeat feeling. Thanks for offering new insight into your life journey. People relate to that and reach out for more.
In my own life, I think of a highshcool teacher who taught me the importance of three words; “cool, calm and collected.” I became a bit nervous during his class about controlling outcomes. My attendance became an exercise in regaining control of the fear of not meeting my own expectations. This teacher helped me reframe learning experience and I came to shift my focus to rise above my self-created fear.
1:29 pm on January 17th, 2009 18
@ Liara Covert:
I can’t believe it but even 35 years later, I remember the scene of that moment. I remember her face, body and action when those life altering words spilled from her lips.
We all have angels like that who appear on the stage of life at just the right moment to propel us forward. I’m forever grateful for it.
You were fortunate to have that high school teacher who had a gift of helping you get a hold of yourself and become centered. What a blessing!
7:40 am on December 14th, 2009 19
Certainly an inspiring story. I’ve been a school teacher for the past 14 years and I know how such simple words can always help the mental development of young children and in turn also help their future. Small things can go a long way. Especially with young children